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It's important to realize that not everyone wants to have kids, and that whatever your goals are in life are definitely not the same for others. I'm trans, and I am immensely grateful for being able to undergo a transition - I would never go back onto my decision, and my mental health has insanely improved. Yes, there's downsides. I'm never going to be able to have biological children, and there's a range of possible risks, none of which have thankfully affected me. But none of that would matter to me if I was dead, which is the harsh reality of completely banning any sort of procedures that bring so much relief to transgender people. I do actually agree that trans-related care should be heavily regulated for kids. Especially considering the recent uptick in the 'trendiness' of being transgender, it should not be as easy as it is to acquire hormones at a young age, and implementing a lot of safeguards and hoops to jump through could help the very small percentage of people that do end up regretting their decision. However, making this issue so black and white (not to mention the shift on ages to make the ban affect people under 19) is the wrong approach. A systematic and empathetic (from both sides) discussion and solution would benefit everyone in this scenario. Yes, I understand that parents don't want their children to do something that they'll regret. My parents told me to wait with any permanent changes until I was a legal adult, and I completely understand them. However, the "surgical mulitation" and "sterilization" that so many condem has given me a second shot at a happier and confident life; I am able to enjoy my experience here, instead of feeling constant self loathing and discomfort. All that I ask is for a little bit of grace and understanding, because I bet that if you met me, you wouldn't have a clue about my past. Let's treat each other as individual people with individual feelings and dreams, with the intelligence to decide the proper course of action.

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Very interesting about the internet and search engines. I hadn't really looked that hard at a current story in this way. An experiment to try for myself later.

The internet's treatment of us is so patronising isn't it? And the sanctimony of those who push gender ideology is really off the charts. They insisted that the system was against them even when they had the President of the USA feting them on the White House lawn!

Despite so many other issues being around, this issue really does demand so much more attention if only because of the way that the media (including the internet) and politics deals with it like no other issue.

Unfortunately Pres. Trump's support for medical protections of children may only harden the resolve of "liberals" bent on tearing down these protections. I hope not.

Interestingly, this story has (thankfully?) dropped off the Guardian's front page-

https://www.theguardian.com/australia-news/2025/jan/29/queensland-transgender-patient-hormone-therapy-ban-doctors-ntwnfb

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